Made behavior of mg_get_cookie(..) regarding errors the same as of mg_get_var(..)

Fix for hang when sending large request with SSL enabled

When using SSL, we must use SSL_pending() in addition to/instead of select() to determine whether there is SSL data to be read.
This update makes the SSL_pending() function available and uses is to check for data if select() indicates there is no data.

See https://github.com/valenok/mongoose/issues/47

Made behavior of mg_get_cookie(..) on errors the same as mg_get_var(..). Separated the two cases a.) problems with destination buffer and b.) cookie header or cookie parameter not existing.

Inconsistent error codes of mg_get_var(..)

Made the names of the function arguments of the declaration and the definition of mg_get_var(..) the same.

Changed the error codes to have a consistent way of reporting errors. -2 is returned if there is a problem with the size of the destination buffer. -1 is returned if the variable is not found.

Updated the documentation of mg_get_var(..) in mongoose.h and removed the redundant comments from mongoose.c.

Added support for Ogg Vorbis audio files

Avoid some level-4 warnings issued by Visual Studio (2012 and possibly previous versions)

Changed signature of url_decode(): signalling on destination buffer overflow. mg_get_var() now does not require extra space for variable buffer

Suppress warning C4127 (conditional expression is constant) issued by Visual Studio 2012 introduced by FD_SET(..) which is using the do-while(0) trick.

Suppress warning C4204 (non-constant aggregate initializer) issued by Visual Studio 2012 due to missing C99 support.